What is the recommended response when a camper shares gender or sexuality?

• A. Dismiss their feelings
• B. Thank them and validate
• C. Punish for openness
• D. Ignore and avoid conversation

Answer: (B)

When someone shares gender or sexuality, the priority is to respond in a way that affirms their dignity and safety. Thank them for trusting you and validate their experience. This kind of response signals respect, reduces fear of judgment, and helps build a sense of trust so they feel comfortable sharing in the future. In practice, acknowledge with warmth, use their chosen name and pronouns, and invite them to share more if they want to. A simple, supportive remark like “I’m glad you told me” or “I’m glad you’re here and you can be yourself here” goes a long way. Reassure them about confidentiality within appropriate limits and offer ongoing support or resources if they’d like it.

Responses that dismiss, punish, or ignore convey judgment and risk harming their sense of safety and belonging, making it harder for them to open up or seek help when needed.